Thursday, October 10, 2013

look in the mirror

the day after i got back from nashville,
ronnie and i were sitting around talking
and he said that he thought moms were really
hot when they were all put together.
 
at the time i was sitting there
nursing brette in his old shirt.
i had on my bass pro hat
and no make-up.
 
cool, ronnie.
thanks.
i get the hint.
 
 
in my defense, i left my luggage with my parents
to give us more space in our car,
so i didn't have anything to even get ready.
 
so there.
bitch.
hahaha



Tuesday, October 8, 2013

happy feet

an update on brette is coming soon.
i can't believe she'll be four months this saturday.
she has been growing - - in an extra chunky kind of way.
and she found her feet.
they are her new favorite thing
and it makes diaper changing extra hilarious/challenging.
 

(my little leg mcmuffin)
 
speaking of feet,
brette is finally able to wear shoes.
at four months, she fits into her newborn sizes.
its adorable.
let the shoe obsession begin!
 

behind the scenes

behind all the pretty pictures from yesterday's posts
are a few tricks, a few stories and a few tips.
 
originally, we were scheduled to go on our annual trip
to estes park, colorado.
apparently, that vacation was doomed.
the town flooded and then our government shut down,
so we wouldn't have been able to get in the national park to go hiking anyway.
can you imagine how mad we would have been if we had traveled to colorado
just to get there in time to not go hiking?
 
so we decided on nashville and quickly booked a couple of hotel rooms.
first mistake.
we really should have considered the three little ones more.
lots of naps needed.
plus nursing time.
travel time.
eating out.
packing all their crap every time we left.
and bedtimes.
it was a lot.
so we spent more time in our hotel than we normally would have.
most mornings, so brette and eden could get in their naps.
and then every night because all the girls were in bed by 8 or 9.
there was a lot of tip-toeing
and watching tv in the dark.
we've already decided that our next trip
must include a house.
somewhere we we can make our own food
and have a living room for the adults once the kiddos go to bed.
if it would have been available, we would have liked to have stayed
it is around 15-20 acres and has lots to do.
but since this was last minute we had to take what we could get.
my tip?
when going to nashville either stay downtown (if you're going out)
stay at the opryland resort (if you want a lot to do without getting out much)
or stay in franklin. (if you want to be near nashville,
but have a family friendly downtown and lots of history).
those were my three favorite things we did
and it would have been nice to have been close to one the whole time.
 
 
also, when traveling with three little girls
we packed lots of snacks, games, toys, dvds, and slings.
getting to nashville and back was what i dreaded most.
a three month old in a car for 8-9 hrs?
could be heinous.
on our way there we split up the trip into two days
and drove into st. louis the first night.
this means i got to see my good friend, marge, and her second born, cohen.
he is almost exactly three months older than brette.
 
(here they are when b was born and again in our hotel room)
 
on our way back we left the grandparents and drove the girls through the night.
it was honestly the best thing we could have done.
the girls slept (most of the time)
and we got to drive without 14 stops along the way.
in fact, we only made one stop to refill on gas.
and that's my second tip.
if you can drive while the little ones sleep. do it.
so much easier.
but we drove around lots once we were in nashville too.
everything was at least a 20 minute drive.
so the girls got lots of car time.
and in most cases, either jaime or i were sandwiched in between
brette and eden,
bottle in one hand, pacifier in the other,
trying to sing and shush at the same time.
whew. but we made it.
and it worked out great since ronaldo
didn't go, we could all fit in brian's pilot so that made
getting around easier instead of having to take two cars everywhere.
but is nashville known for traffic?
because i've never seen anything like it.
unless you're in new york, la, chicago, but nashville?
who knew.
 
even though we had to plan around naps
we still got out and saw most of the town.
we toured the grand ol opry,
which took an hour.
it was kind of overkill,
but at least i can say i've seen it.
 
we walked around music row.
there were so many amazing country bars
and live music in every one.
i would love to go back for a long weekend
with just adults.  its totally my scene.
but my family is not into country and
obviously not the right place for little ones.
 
franklin was adorable.
i heard tim and faith live there.
i can see why.
too bad i didn't see them.
where's a country music star when you need them?
 
it was a good trip.
good times with the family.
and i got to go somewhere i'd never been before.
we learned what not to do
and what works.
oh and my last mandatory new rule:
ronnie must go on all family vacations, no matter what.
 
it just wasn't the same without him.
 
 
 

Monday, October 7, 2013

nashvegas

 a picture says a thousand words, right?
so i'll just leave you with a bunch of pictures from our trip
and elaborate another day.
 
roadtrippin
 
 
first stop: the grand ole opry
 



 
and stopped by the  play things at the mall because
the battery in our car died.
whaaaa?
 
then dinner downtown
 
 
 

second stop: the zoo

 
 
 madeline was in charge of our map.
something she took very seriously.
 

 
third stop: music row and the ryman auditorium
 
 
 



 
third stop: country music hall of fame
 
forth stop: radnor lake and trails 
 
 
fifth stop: franklin, tn
 
 
 
 
 
 

 

 
  
 sixth and final stop: cheekwood botanical gardens




 
 
 we did a lot in one week.
and i think brette slept through about 75% of it.
more tomorrow with all the details.
 
 

Friday, September 27, 2013

over and out

whew.
i'm packed.
that was hard.
i'm pretty sure brette has everything she could ever need.
me?
i'll probably look like a homeless person.
oh well, nashville - - here we come!
 
i'm really nervous about the road trip.
normally its my favorite part of vacations,
but with a three month old,
i just want to get there.
 
pray for us.
 
 
here's brette today.
notice the bib?
she's quite the slobber queen.
i hate it.
so in order to keep a shirt dry,
we change out bibs a couple times a day.
i packed a lot of those.
wish us luck.
 
i'll be back in a week!
 
 

Wednesday, September 25, 2013

a few things






one
i am still trying to figure out nap time around here.
nothing is really working amazingly.
i did start using the swing and she will sleep in there about
an hour, but she normally wakes up once during that hour.
then she sleeps on me for the next hour, for a total of
a two hour nap.
i still can't figure out what's waking her up
or why she can't put herself back to sleep.
at night she wakes up and falls back to sleep on her own.
i think my next step is buying room darkening curtains
to make her room super dark.
maybe that would help.
 
two
ronnie is not going with us to nashville.
i hate it.
who wants to go on a family vacation without their husband?
lame.
he thinks he needs to stay and work.
i think he needs to take a break and hang out with me.
it doesn't seem very fair that i don't have a job
and i'm the one getting the vacation.
i'm hoping he takes it easy while we're gone.
hang with some friends or something.
but knowing him he'll slave away.
 
three
our foundation work on the house is complete.
the grass is sowed and our yard is covered in straw.
hopefully, grass starts popping up soon.
now we just need to lay the carpet in the basement.
the guys are coming next week while i'm gone.
hopefully, i come home to it being completely done.
then i can get the treadmill back out and
maybe try working out again.
(i don't think i can blame the fattiness on brette past 6 months.)
 
 
that's what has been going on over here in cox land.
happy hump day!