inside my head

this isn't so much a blog post as it

is a little download off all the hilarious

things i've found on the internet that speaks to me.

anytime i see something on facebook or

instagram that i love, i save it to my phone.

most of the time i'll send it to my tribe of girls

or to ronnie because there is so much truth in all of these.

so here you go... have a laugh.

(happy easter, right?)

(i heard three is worse than two. dear lord, why?)

(not sure who i'm voting for yet, but this is classic either way.)

(grammar is important.)

(i sent this one to my aunt mickie, because this. is. her.)

(and i sent this one to my mom. i'm always on top of my

laundry, but it's never actually in drawers.)

(at least the girls looks cute.)

(my back. for real.)

(this one is SO ronnie that it kills me.  if you see him head to

the bathroom with his phone, it means that he's taking a loooong break.)

(i sent this to ronald.  he probably doesn't remember it.)

(can i get an amen?)

(if you ever spend the day with brette you will most likely

have to hear about her socks and her shirt. it's maddening.)

and now you know.

real life.

reid: eight months

 

 

this beautiful little baby is eight months old and

she is truly the sweetest little thing ever.

ever. ever.

 

 

growth:

we do not have a doctor appointment until next

month so i have no clue how big she is,

but she wears 6-9 month clothing and size 3 diapers.

the sides of her hair is getting long and i mostly just

tuck it behind her ears. 

i'm hoping her back starts to grow too or

it might be a loooong time before she's sporting a ponytail.

she is sitting up on her own quite nicely.

i still like to have something behind her in case

she falls back but i trust her enough to sit and play for a bit.

she will also flip and flop all over the place and can

push herself backwards, but

so far, no forward movement.

i also remember with brette taking off the couch cushions

to let her practice standing up to play.

i'm going to try that out on reid in the next month too.

hopefully crawling is on the horizon.

but what she's really into right now is screaming.

the highest pitch, loudest scream i've ever heard.

it pairs nicely with a two year old trying to do the same.

(send earplugs)

 

 

sleeps:

sleeping has gotten SO MUCH BETTER.

with the time change, she now

goes down between 8:00-8:30 and has

been sleeping until about 5:30.

i nurse her, put her back down and she'll sleep to about 7:30.

every once in awhile she'll still wake up around 11:00 or 12:00

but i just give her pacifier and she goes right off.

napping however is another story.

normally, i get one long nap a day.

nine times out of ten its in the morning.

then she'll take two other shorter naps.

one early afternoon and the other early evening.

i can only hope that one day,

she can just cut it down to two long naps

and then my life would be so much better.

i put reid down three times and brette down once, so

i feel like a lot of my day is centered around naps and

it kind of sucks.

i've also started giving her a blanket.

its one of those breathable aden & anais ones that

i can wrap her up in but she can bust out of easily.

i'm still nursing her to sleep which i know i need to stop,

but its just so easy and she's not the best eater, so

i like to take advantage of some quiet time.

i guess i'll need to find a new plan soon.

 

 

 eats:

like i was saying, not the greatest eater.

if there is anything going on in the room, then

she has to know what it is.

she spends most of her time looking around and hardly

anytime actually eating.

so, most feeding are right before she sleeps.

i nurse her at 6:00am,

9:30am,

noon,

2:00pm

5:00 pm and

8:00pm.

she also gets fed twice a day.

we're still on baby foods.

i know at this age brette already had several teeth

and we had moved past baby foods and would

let her pick up and eat table food.

reid is just no there.

i have done it some, but

with no teeth there are very limited things i feel

comfortable giving her.

 

 

plays:

she hates laying down and

has to be sitting up to play.

she also can get upset when brette takes her toys

(which is quite often).

however, they play so well together.

its really sweet to watch.

reid just laughs and smiles at brette all the time.

i try to keep brette from being too rough and

i can only imagine how mush worse its going to be once

reid starts walking.

i'm kind of nervous for it.

i just don't want a constantly injured baby.

(i  m i g h t  be a helicopter mom)

 

 

firsts:

she went to her first parade.

she celebrated her first st. patrick's day.

she took her first ride on the lawn mower.

she had her first bites of meat. (mushy chicken salad and loved it)

 

and that's it.

our little eight month old.

 

 

mr. bear was in brette's room and since brette was napping

we used tator hog as a stand-in.

miss reid loves her puppies.

 (and they both love ronnie - - just look at that smile)

 

i feel like spring has sprung which means

summer is right around the corner and all

too soon we won't be counting her age by months but by years.

make it stop.

 

 

 

 

so about last week

i have lots of excuses for not blogging last week.

i really was super busy.

but i still probably had time to write a post or two.

the truth is, i started reading a book series and

i spent all my free time trying to get through the next chapter.

i even talked brette into reading to herself for story-time

so we could both read.

worked like a charm.

if you like divergent or the hunger games,

you'll probably like these too.

the first book is called Red Queen and the second

is Glass Sword, but unfortunately book three and four

don't come out for another YEAR.

so now i hate life and i'm stuck waiting,

which means i'm back to blogging.

let's recap last week.

 

saturday ronnie and i took the girls to the

st. patty's day parade in lee's summit and then

i stayed back for the pub crawl.

ronnie took one for the team and spent the rest of the

day with the girls, while i was out with all my

friends from the bank.

so. much. fun.

too. much. beer.

there are a lot of pictures like this:

 

 

 

sunday was a recovery day.

ronnie was out shopping for fishing crap and took brette with him.

i stayed back with reid and debated how cheeseburgers i should eat.

cale sent me a pic of ronnie and b while they were out shopping.

i guess this place had a ferris wheel inside.

um, cool!

and brette loved the fishing poles.

she's her daddy's girl.

 

 

monday i worked and then we had our weekly family dinner.

tuesday my college roomie, marge, came into town so

i invited dana, kass and shannon to hang out with us for the day.

the kids played.

the mom's took care of the babies.

and we tried not to eat too much chinese food.

shan, marge and i had to get a roomie picture with our new girls.

we've all had baby girls this year.

so crazy. 

 

 

 

marge spent the night so wednesday we got

up and spent the morning with shannon.

after marge left wednesday afternoon

i finally got around to doing laundry and cleaning.

hanging out with friends is so much better.

 

 

thursday i spent my whole day running errands.

literally hauled both girls to six different places.

it sucked but it needed to be done.

here is brette at target "nursing" my wallet.

it was so weird i had to take a picture.

 

 

thursday night we had a small sprinkle for baby wilders on the plaza.

dana is adding a third little chick to her crew.

i can't wait to meet this little boy.

if he's anything like her other two

he'll have plenty of hair and be completely adorable.

 

 

friday i worked and ronnie left for his annual trout fishing trip

so the girls in my family decided to get together for a little dinner.

my mom, my aunt, my cousin and her daughter all came over.

we ordered in food and played some games after i put my girls to bed.

it was a nice way to spend the evening instead of hanging out by myself.

 

saturday i worked so my mom watched the girls for part of the morning and

then kassie came over and watched them the other

half since her husband was gone with ronnie on the fishing trip.

she hung out all day while the boys sent us pictures from their trip.

they took a selfie stick with them, so

i thought the pictures were hilarious.

three men and their selfie stick.

(and no, ronnie had no clue what that was)

 

 

 

and now here it is - - sunday.

we just did a lot of lounging and hanging on ronnie.

it was nice to have him back.

he brought brette a little fishing rod home so

i think a few afternoons at the lake are in my future.

 

 

and we managed to make it out of the house to run up the road

to buy a new sofa sleeper for our front room...

coming this april.

i'm excited to move my old college couch back down to the basement.

 

that's it.

my whole busy week.

can you believe i managed to read two books too?!

so now you know why i had no time for this ol' blog.

 

have a great week!

beer me

i'm always listening to music.

in the kitchen.

in the playroom.

on my phone.

i have to have on background noise.

recently i heard a new song and

i loved it immediately.

it reminds me so much of me and ronnie.

our first "date" was a concert a week after i turned 21.

ronnie bought me my first beer on a date.

and let's be honest, almost everything we did

while dating started with a beer.

we went out a lot - with beer.

we stayed in a lot - with beer.

we would drive around - with beer.

it's crazy how all that led to this.

 here we are married, living in the suburbs, raising two kids.

and it all started with a beer.

 

i knew all those beers i drank were a good thing.

my parents didn't believe me,

but i knew.

i think i'm going to go buy us a six-pack.

after all, it is tradition AND leinenkugel season.

 

cheers, ronaldo.

 

 

 

 

 

the war on sleep

brette first.

she has stopped napping.

my worst nightmare.

she'll sing or play or whine to get up,

but there is rarely a day she actually falls asleep.

i still make her hang out in her crib for an hour or two

to "rest" but that's not the same.

last week, she napped for my parents on monday

and then again on SUNDAY.

basically a WHOLE FREAKING WEEK without a nap.

she fell asleep in the car a few times for 30 minutes or so,

but to actually lay down in her crib a sleep for a couple hours?

not. happening.

and it makes for such a grouchy two year old.

she's not herself.

she cries all the time and fights me and i know why...

she's so tired.

everyday i think, "oh man, she's going to pass out today."

and then she doesn't.

i think if i rocked her, i could put her to sleep everyday,

but that's such a pain.

and i really don't have time for that

because i normally put brette down first so

i can nurse reid and have her down too.

i KNOW my child can put herself to sleep.

she's been doing it since she was 10 months old.

and i KNOW two years old it too young to give up naps,

so its back to the drawing board.

i have got to find a way to keep her napping.

it's my new goal in life.

send your prayers... or suggestions.

 

 

 

now reid.

she's actually sitting in my lap right now.

she's been up since 5:30am and that's after a night like this:

down at 8:00. (later than normal because monday nights are crazy.)

up at 11:00 and stayed awake until 12:15.

up at 2:30 and i nursed her.

up (i guess for the day?) at 5:30.

she actually sleeps worse now than she ever has.

i long for the months that i put her down at 7:00,

up at 4:00 and back down until 7:00.

i can't believe i complained about that.

and what about all those night she slept all the way through?

i know she can do this.

i keep saying that maybe it's her teeth, but two months later and

none have popped through.

i'm not sure what to do about it either because i never dealt with this before.

i put brette down and i would see the next morning.

i told ronnie what's going on because he is literally clueless.

she could be screaming in his ear and he wouldn't wake up.

sometimes it makes me want to shake him just so he's awake

when i am, but i know he's got to work the next day so i silently curse him

and take care of it myself.

what i would like to try is to let her try to figure this out for a bit on her own

before i go in there, but i'm so nervous she's going to wake up brette

that i normally try to intervene as soon as i hear her.

i think i'm going to roll the dice and give it a shot and

just pray that brette can sleep through some of this.

dear god please.

or else i really am going to have to wake up ronnie if both girls are up.

house party at 3am.  not cool.

 

 

 

ok, wish me luck.

wish me sleep.

and hope that i find an amazing sleep trick on the internet.


***update***
reid slept though the night last night and
brette took a 2.5 hour nap.
i think they read my blog.

little bits

we have had a few smaller things on our list

to get done around the house.

some of them i've knocked out myself

and i'm hoping that the ones i need ronnie's help with

we can finish up over the weekend.

we have no plans.  knock on wood.

 

first, the things i've done:

i white washed some of the downstairs fireplace.

i didn't want to do the whole thing like i did in our bedroom,

but some of the bricks were way too orange and i hate that.

 

i also ran into target one day to grab diapers,

(target had an amazing diaper sale)

and i saw this side table on clearance.

i got it for $20, originally $70.

yes, i'll take it.

but please imagine...

reid and brette are in the cart and there is

no where to put this table, so i am holding it and

trying to steer the cart full of kids.

i looked crazy.

 

originally i wanted a stump table,

but honestly i'm tired of waiting for it to get done.

this is a perfect second option. 

 a little wood and a little gold.

exactly what reid's room needed.

 

 

and speaking of new furniture,

we also picked up this new chair for our front room.

a friend of my brother's sold it to me.

i didn't tell ronnie and when he saw it he

hated it because he said it didn't "go with this house."

i proved him wrong and once again told him

to do the heavy lifting and i'll take care of the rest.

(wink)

and now he really likes it.

 

 

 

there are two projects i would like done this weekend.

one, is hanging some hooks by the front door.

we still have our coat rack out,

which i still totally love, but

it's not safe for kiddos.

brette has literally knocked it down three times.

luckily, its never landed on her, but i'm over worrying about it. 

 

i bought these from home goods but i need ronnie's help,

because the way i need them latched to the wall will take some rigging.

i need it to be more sturdy than what they are, so we

can use them for our coats and for company.

 

i plan on hanging four of them across this half wall,

right by the front door.

 

the second thing i need ronnie to do is put in one or two

electrical outlets in the floor in our front room.

if you look at this picture again, you'll see i have lamps on

either side of our couch but nowhere to plug them into.

i'd like to hide an outlet in our floor under the couch

so i can actually USE these lamps.

i swear, the electrical jobs are always the last to get done.

 

 

and that should do it!

not a hard list at all.

 

the big jobs are still lurking though...

baseboards in our family room,

then priming and painting.

but i think it looks so good with the wood planking.

i can't wait to see this done.

 

 

 

i love all the small finishes.

it really makes our house a home.

 

hopefully shit gets done and i'll have another update soon.

fingers crossed.